The Best Job – Motherhood

This weekend, most of us will spend a moment or two to thank our mothers – whether they are still with us or not – for the selfless act of giving us life and raising us. I recently came across this amazing commercial that says it all, in a simple yet powerful way. Mothers have the hardest job in the world but it’s also the best. This video choked me up the first time and now gives me chills every time I watch it.

I feel so very lucky to be a mother and every day I know that it’s a huge responsibility and with it comes guilt and worry but also heart-bursting love that continuously regenerates me and lets me know that it’s all worth it. I also feel very lucky to still have my Mom around and though she doesn’t live in the same city, we are close and I love her very much. I also loved my Mother-in-law and wish she was still around so she could see what an amazing boy her grandson is growing up to be. I’m also grateful to have a Step-mom who I’ve grown close to and appreciate for the love and support she gives my Dad. And finally, in my work, I am so very honoured to meet moms-to-be and new moms. Photographing women for both belly and baby portrait sessions allows me to relive all the excitement and awe of becoming a parent. It’s just such a powerful, emotional time which is why, although I love cute shots of baby on their own, I always love to capture Moms with their newborn, like my beautiful client Stephanie and her sweet baby boy below.

Becoming a mother is when we finally ‘get it’. We finally know all that our moms did for us and how much they love us – so completely to the core. And so to all my fellow mothers, Happy Mother’s Day! You are AMAZING!

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Newborn Photography – A New Parent’s Primer

Before I had my son, newborns made me nervous. In fact, my girlfriend had her baby 3 weeks before I had mine and I still felt he was too small and fragile for me to hold. Of course, all that changed after holding my son for the first time. Safety should always be the number one priority during a newborn session. Personally I like to start with images of the parents holding their newborn in a few different positions for variety and so the parents get comfortable with me. They are often my favourite images from a session – I melt at the look of pure love on a new parent’s face. I also try to pose the newborn on their own and prefer simple, natural poses without too many props. Newsflash, many newborn poses that are really popular right now (like baby perched on their elbows and propping up their head) are composites. That means someone is holding the babies’ little arms in one shot, then holding just the top of the head in another and then in Photoshop they are sandwiched together and the hands holding them are eliminated. They are also really tricky to get. You need a newborn that is very new (under 10 days) and in a very deep sleep. I’m sharing this in case you hire a photographer and see them try to do this pose without assistance. If at any time you feel the photographer is not acting in the best interest of your baby, speak up! At the same time, a qualified pro should be trusted and some request that mom doesn’t help move the baby because the smell of her may cause the baby to stir and want to feed. So do your research and don’t just choose based on price. Love their style and make sure you feel they have enough experience. I’ve worked hard to become accredited in Children and Infant Portrait through the Professional Photographers of Canada. Another association that requires a portfolio review is the U.S. based National Association of Professional Child Photographers. If you want to help a new photographer build their portfolio, ask for more simple poses. Sessions typically take up to 4 hours, mainly because the baby wakes up and is upset and needs to be soothed, or nursed. I also keep the studio very warm so make sure you wear layers or have a t-shirt handy. I try to tell parents not to feel stressed if their baby is not cooperating. I often hear that they slept so well the day before but it is likely they were not handled and disturbed while trying to sleep. By starting with pictures of the new family, I know I will get priceless images that both the parents and the child when it’s older, will treasure. The images of baby on their own are like the icing on the cake. Below is one of my favourites from a January session with little Oliver. Newborns don’t smile but if they have a bit of gas, it sure looks like it and this was a such a great moment to capture. Newborns are unpredictable but it only takes a fraction of a second to capture something priceless. Just remember that the window to capture newborns in that sleepy curled up state is very small, under two weeks old is best. The older the infant, the more alert they become and the less they will want to curl up. You can still get some great images but the session may take longer and don’t expect to get some of the trickier poses. As I’m sure you’ve realized (or will realize) once you have a baby – they are in charge!

I hope this helps give you a little bit of insight on the realities of a newborn portrait session. I know the first 2 weeks are a crazy time for any new parent so adding a portrait session in the mix can be tough but it is an investment you will not regret as they change so very quickly at this stage. More often than not, I hear parents regret they didn’t take the time. I am one of them. I didn’t even realize how small the window was and first did a proper session when my son was 2 months old and only got a few useable images. So if you know anyone who is expecting a baby and thinking about doing a newborn session, please share this post with them. If you want to schedule a session with me, please contact me with your expected due date. Gift certificates are also available and make great shower gifts. I also offer a special if you would like a maternity session as well. Please click here for details. After the newborn session, maternity is the other type of session many people regret not having done. Don’t worry if you have stretch marks (I have Photoshop!) or don’t feel you have that perfect basketball belly, pregnancy is an amazing time and having images done professionally where you will look beautiful will be worth it.

 

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Spring Forward and Recharge During March Break

My son started school in September so this is officially our first March Break. Since I work from home and am my own boss, I could have just stayed home with him this week and fought the crowds and potential new viruses at various events going on around the city, but that sounded exhausting. Instead, my husband took the week off and after spending the weekend at the Ottawa Travel and Vacation Show to promote the India Through the Lens Photography Tour I’ll be leading in November, and a stop at my son’s good buddy’s birthday party, we headed to our cottage in the Kawartha Lakes. The time change meant we drove completely in daylight and my son never once asked for the DVD player and instead played with some toys and enjoyed listening to music on the radio. I remember when the 4 hour drive was a real nightmare, I would have to sit in the backseat and entertain him to keep him from crying the whole way. He was never one of those babies who slept well in a car… Not only was this ride a breeze but we were greeted by his cousin Anne DesBrisay (check out her Ottawa restaurant reviews on her website www.capitaldining.ca) and her husband who were staying at our cottage for a few days to check in on the building progress of their new cottage down the road. And it’s no surprise that as a great food connoisseur and restaurant critic, she is a great cook too! They truly are some of the loveliest people I know (as are their four boys)! So we had a toast of champagne and a wonderful meal that perfectly complemented the spectacular sunset that was taking place. I couldn’t resist pulling out my camera for a few shots as you can see below.

Yesterday we said goodbye to Anne and her husband who headed back to Ottawa and greeted my Dad and his wife who will stay with us for the week. They will also be joining me in India so we were pouring over the itinerary and brochures I picked up at the Incredible India booth were I was helping out on the weekend. We also started planning a trip to New Mexico for this coming May. My husband went to a United World College near Las Vegas, New Mexico and his favourite wilderness instructor is retiring and invited us to join one of his last hiking trips in the mountains near the college. Since my Dad also retired a year ago, they have the time to join us on this adventure as well. I’m not sure how well my four-year-old will do on the hike so we may have a plan B – stick to base camp and do short hikes around there. He is excited about taking a plane and I can’t wait to start introducing him to new experiences now that he’s older.  I love this stage of his life – so curious, with a wild imagination and contagious joie de vivre. I actually had a moment today when I knew I would miss this age, possibly more than any other… But I am also excited about what lies ahead. He’s a bit young for India but one day…

Starting a business and being self-employed as a professional photographer and graphic designer is hard work and takes a huge leap of faith as well as determination to get through the slow periods or the days when you feel everyone else is more successful than you. I’ve learned to tune out what others are doing and focus on my work and wonderful clients and my own successes. I may not be pulling in a 6-figure salary but I am happy and feel an immense sense of gratitude for all that I have in my life, the people and the opportunities that are coming my way. I love the work that I do and am passionate about continuing to hone my skills and perfect my craft. I love that there is a new chapter in my career that is opening up so I can help others find that passion too. Before the tour in India, I will be teaching photography workshops to those interested in learning how to get out of auto or program mode and create images with more impact and meaning. Please sign up for my newsletter by clicking here, to be the first to know about them and other specials I offer. Don’t worry, I only send 2-4 a year so I won’t be spamming your inbox!

So this March Break may not be a complete break as I have a few projects I’m working on, but being here at the cottage does allow me to recharge my batteries, think clearly and take a breath and appreciate my life. I hope you manage to do the same! It’s an exercise we really should do every day.

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Celebrating International Women’s Day with Complimentary Sessions

Recently, I had the privilege of not only photographing FAB Women at a promotional photo booth (see results by clicking here) but also the F.A.B. Women Charity Gala itself (see those images here) where I got to listen to a moving speech by Sophie Grégoire-Trudeau about her own struggle with an eating disorder and her commitment to help empower women. This past weekend I watched a wonderful resource for photographers called Creative Live and the guest workshop instructor was an amazing glamour photographer from Sydney, Australia named Sue Bryce. She blew me away! Her images of regular women are simply stunning, check out her before and afters. I’ve learned so much from her and am itching to put it in practice. So….

Today is International Women’s Day and to celebrate and honour all the beautiful women that touch our lives, I am offering complimentary sessions (regularly $225 + tax) to women who want to treat themselves to a fabulous day of pampering, along with a girlfriend, sister, mom or daughter. So book your session time, take a day off work, go to your favourite salon to get your hair and makeup done then come to my studio for a complimentary portrait session. Afterwards, make sure you’ve got a sitter booked so your honey or the girlfriends you came with can take you out on the town because you will look and feel fabulous! I will be taking only 2 groupings a day, on weekdays only, starting Tuesday, March 20 until Friday May 11th. The first appointment each day will be at 11am and the second at 2pm. The sessions will last 1-2 hours. Do you have more than one BFF or sister or daughter? No problem, the more the merrier! Though I probably can’t fit a whole soccer team in my studio. ;)

What’s the catch? None really, except it’s for women only, it’s first come first serve so space is limited, there are no evening or weekend appointments and the last day to participate is Friday May 11, 2012. That’s right before Mother’s Day so turn it into the perfect gift for Mom! Oh and only the session is complimentary, all prints, products and digital files are sold separately but as a group you can purchase a collection together or build your own with my à la carte list. Finally, I will require a $50 non-refundable retainer that you will be able to use towards your order. This is to guarantee your spot and avoid last minute cancellations.

This is about celebrating our beauty and strength as women and the special relationships we have with each other. Life is short, love yourself as you are right now and let me help you see you the way those who love you do.

Use the contact form, email me or phone me at 613.859.9584 to reserve your spot.

P.S. If the images below look familiar, I took them at a charity fundraiser for the AIDS Committee of Ottawa last year. It was an awesome girls’ night out!

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Join me on a Photography Tour of India – November 2012

To say that I am excited about this opportunity is an understatement! When I received an email from Indus Travels in January saying they were looking for a professional photographer to lead a 12 day tour of India, I didn’t hesitate to reply. Travel is a huge passion of mine – tied very closely with my love for photography. I was bitten by the bug when my grandfather organized a big family trip to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico when I was thirteen. Later that year, my grandmother let me tag along with her on a trip to Turkey and that summer I went on an exchange in France. Since then, I have traveled to the Caribbean and Mexico several times, Costa Rica, Italy, Belgium, Hong Kong and several countries in Southern Africa. I’ve also lived in Mauritius and South Africa. Both amazing, life changing experiences. My wandering ways did slow down once I had my son though we did travel to Colombia for a friend’s wedding. Now that my son is in school, I feel my feet getting itchy once again and this tour is the perfect medicine.

India Through the Lens will take place at the end of November 2012 and includes a visit to the Taj Mahal at both sunrise and by moonlight. The cost can be with or without air and includes all hotels, transportation, most meals as well as a rickshaw, a camel and an elephant ride. Having spoken to friends who have traveled there before, this tour is extremely good value.

I’ve now created a new page on my site called travel. Please check it out for more details on the trip.

If you feel your photography skills or knowledge are not up to par, fear not, I will be offering workshops leading up to the trip so you can at least nod your head knowingly when talk of fast glass, ISO and f-stops comes up. Details coming soon!

I hope you can join me in discovering the beauty of India, through your lens. To book your spot, please contact Lavina at Indus Travels by phone at 1 866 978 2997 or email lavina@indus.travel. For a PDF version of the flyer below, please click here.

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